10 Tips on being a great lover – even with Erectile Dysfunction

It is the age-old question…what does it take to be a good lover?  When a man begins to develop erectile loss due to age, chronic health issues, mental health issues, medications, lifestyle choices, etc, this question takes on a whole new meaning.  Men voice worries that the size of their penis, their ability to obtain […]

Men’s Health: 8 Tips for a Healthy Erectile Dysfunction Discussion with your Partner

In the early stages of erectile challenges, how a couple establishes communication around the issue is so very important….even if it feels awkward. I want to share some tips to help you lean-in to the discussion together.   When a man is in a committed relationship, ED impacts both partners and the longer it goes unaddressed […]

Erectile Dysfunction: Why Don’t We Talk About it?

What I have learned in working with men, and their partners, who are facing erectile challenges is that talking about it, with a partner or healthcare provider, can feel awkward, vulnerable, and embarrassing. Additionally, I have learned that without open, honest, and vulnerable conversation, both will likely get caught up in negative thought loops that […]

8 Steps to the Best Sensual Massage

Let’s continue our exploration of couples sensual massage. We are talking about connecting the senses and sensual experiences between lovers. It is about slowing down to savor the love we make together. It is about the intimacy of lovers being shared as both learn to give and receive pleasure.  Step 1: Create a sensual space. […]

Sensual Massage – Awaken your Senses

Sensual Massage – Awakening your senses and feeling all the feels! We have been given an extraordinary sensorial body. We have feel good zones from the top of our head to the bottom of our feet. We have the senses of vision, smell, taste, hearing, touch, and, dare I add, imagination. Western culture life is […]

Sensual Massage – What the heck is it?

Sensual massage is NOT about working out your stress knots & injury kinks.  It IS about working on some different, uhmmm kinks. Sensual massage has been part of human culture for more than 1,500 years and you can find its roots in the Eastern cultures. This type of massage is about the couple learning to […]